‘SPACING’ & RELATIONSHIPS

The panorama of emotions, the spectrum of moods, and the complexity of human behavior is what makes us! On the scale of emotions, love being the most beautiful one…

“We are most alive when we’re in love.” John Updike

We are born to live, to give back, whatever we get in this lovely world; but being in love is what makes us being alive!

Professional life boosts our ego but it is the personal life which makes us, in fact it is the personal life which bestow peace! Content in personal life imparts positivity to stand for ourselves…

The people who excels heights in their professions belongs to two categories- either they dont have any personal life or they are the ones with an awesome support system aka advanced resuscitating system.

There are many virtues which clasp the relationship together; ‘spacing’ is one such! As it is said..“Absence sharpens love, presence strengthens it.”  – Thomas Fuller

One’s own self is as crucial in life because it allows to think about oneself and give time to rejuvenate which is important to feel great! Just like only water can relinquish the thirst!

Let me share a small beautiful story…My best friend Jasmine had met a guy…let s call him MRG(Minimal Response Guy)…Well she liked him and probably he liked her even more…

Things were well till she realized, its him who never calls or texts. She used to be the one to text or call while MRG would never ever initiate the conversation baring the occasions where he needed her help!…With every text her heart used to beat faster for the probability of being him…Though she was into him yet there was a point in her life when she gave up on him and moved on!

So the point to ponder was why did this guy avoided her while in relationship? If he was not interested it would have been better that he might have expressed the same and that probably would have saved her from the agony created!

Jasmine had no idea what that guy was up to? Why she faced that misery? Why did the guy dint make her feel important in his life by contacting her? Was he dating other women or he had just kept her as standby?

Only after she gave up on him did he realize the folly! When he approached back jasmine, she was not persuaded and let him go…it was a bit aberrant for me to comprehend because she did love him but her reply astonished me even more!

She explained me that all this while when he was not responding or just kept ignoring her; she had kind of lost the habit of him…In short she had learnt to live without him…his presence or absence doesn’t make any difference anymore!

Spacing is essential but not too much that it cost the relationship! As it is said “True love is not a hide and seek game: in true love, both lovers seek each other.” Michael Bassey Johnson

“There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.” Friedrich Nietzsche.

Keep the love alive not for others but for yourself as this one is the most beautiful emotion on earth!

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Pooja Jain

A passionate doctor, a writer, blogger, avid reader, music lover, painter, coffee freak and a traveller!!….

I’m simply happy being me….I believe every single day holds the potential of beauty……A person who tries to look into positive in almost every situation...In short I'm just myself inspiring others in my journey!!

'Spread your wings,it's time to fly...Make the Leap, Own the sky!!!'

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